and it’s Being fun and helping others have fun is a way of keeping dates and potential relationship partners engaged and invested in the relationship.
It’s a vital part of the chemistry that helps ensure that not only will she enjoy the first date but that she’ll be interested in coming back for a second… The worst dates date just drains the life out of everyone involved.
It’s a very simple premise: we instinctively like people who make us feel good.
The better they make us feel, the more we like them.
The brain increases dopamine and norepinephirine, which regulates the brain’s pleasure and reward centers.
We associate the pleasure with the person and thus want to spend more time in their presence.
Fun people make others feel comfortable and have a better grasp on how to read people’s signs and moods and can adjust themselves as needed.