I was recently out at a trendy bar in Boston with an old school friend of mine.
They want to get intimate and even willing to have raw and an untamed sex.
They just want to feel comfortable with being around or near you and touching you before letting their guards down.
You should act on a subtle level so she doesn’t acknowledge the fact that you are trying to pick her up.
She will go along with it on those terms, but if she starts to feel like she’s being poked like a cattle and treated like a slab of meat she will turn her back and reject you instantly.
They want to be seduced and carried off into the night, but they also want it within their terms. They want to be swept off their feet with subtlety and mystery.