or else I won’t be happy,” then you set yourself up for tremendous unhappiness.You see, that style of thinking is completely backwards and it will drive the guy away. Well, it’s simple: Men are attracted to women who are happy (not feeling like they are unhappy unless they “get” specifically what it is that they want).
What I mean by this is that if you take on a certain perspective, you are guaranteed to act needy.
And if you take on a different perspective, you will never act needy.
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” Quiz All it means is that you trust that everything is going to work out for the best.
That feeling does not feel good, and the source of it is how you’re thinking about your situation, it’s your perspective. You could have 100,000 songs on your i Pod, but if you’re not playing any of the songs… In that same way, your relationship is exactly what it is in the moment that you’re with that person, experiencing that person and interacting with that person. you experience it in the moment you’re with the person.